I’m sitting here trying to work out some thoughts and several conversations have been running around in my head of late.
I’m the coordinator for youth and young adult ministries for the Episcopal Diocese of Tennessee, and so I often get questions from churches (and not just in our diocese either) that sound like this “how can we attract more young people?”
And something’s been bothering me about those questions, regardless of which of the several reasons is behind it.
The thing is, most of the people, and like I said, regardless of the wonderful motivation behind it, asking this question, want a program or solution to bring young people into their existing church structure.
Well, I think I’ve happened on the solution as I was musing.
Get out of the church.
That’s right leave.
Because you see, the church isn’t that building no matter how cute, historic, grand, beautiful, or whatever it may be. The building is an incidental. You are the church.
So go out and start taking the church, and the fantastic message of life in Jesus to people you know.
Just live life in relationship with people, not from your church (*gasp, I know*).
Live life in relationship with people with no agenda. Share with them what excites you, hopefully Jesus is on the list, if not, perhaps you should start by doing a little soul searching and having a few in depth Jesus-times yourself.
As you share your life with people, including how you live in relationship with Jesus, they might get interested. Or they might not. But at least they won’t be in the category of people that don’t know a single Christian.
Some stats for you.
The number of non-Christians a person knows has an inverse relationship with the length of time that person has been a Christian. So the most mature Christians, who should be out there making disciples, don’t know any non-Christians. Hmmm…
The average number of conversions per 100 people in mainline denomination per year is… Are you ready?
One.
And those of you non-mainline folks, your rate of conversion is actually better. I know you knew this. But wait, what is it?
One point seven. Yup, nearly double, but still, per one hundred? sort of pitiful.
People, our entire mission as the church is to make disciples.
And we’re failing! Churches that are growing are mainly getting Christians from other churches.
It’s a giant shell game of “find the Christians.”
So what we’ve been doing, isn’t working. People will no longer “come and see.”
Get out of the church. Get into the world.
It’s time we tried out that whole “salt and light” thing again.
Just go.